So it’s been a longgggg time since I have written on here. Since that time I have been working a great deal. BOTH jobs still going great and over all I can’t say much more about that. My mother recently started to work with also. She wanted the job and we NEEDED someone good so naturally it worked out as a perfect match. I am continuing to learn more about people and prospective on a strange observational way having her around.
I think maybe it’s just the nature of having a parent be around you at work that a sorta instinct kicks in that makes me question the world around you as this life and the world thing kinda happens…If that makes any sense at all? I mean okay I have had my parents in my life FOREVER and they have always taught me as parents should. The concepts of respect, observation, behavior “in general” and guidance have always been as a parent teaches. Yet I don’t think the concept of my parents actually being people who live in the same world has ever been a thing I put into terms. Seeing any parent have to deal with the same bullshit you deal with on a daily bases is very.. out of place.
It’s not like my parents have ever been bubbled or anything like that. They have always been just a couple of kids from Brooklyn who had some kids and did the best they could to figure out how to get from day to day. Yet I personally never really thought of that as in a detailed concept. Mom and Dad have always been “Mom and DAD”.. hardworking, respected, Loved and just Rocks for my life. I could go to them with anything I have in my life and believe I know how rare that is but the concept that it is that way because they have probably seen and heard it all probably well before I even was alive is very real to me now.
Parents are a funny thing because it’s just human nature to take it all for granted until either it’s gone or you are put into a place that it’s like.. HEY .. This is how it is and how it will be “Hopefully” for me some day. They ascend the concept of people because it’s the nature. I have never seen my mother specifically be nervous about anything but on that first day of work “as it would be for anyone” it was there. They are human and it’s just mind blowing to even think the concept. MAYBE it’s just me constantly living in my head about these things but not gonna lie I really feel like more people should work or even consider the idea of really digging into that part of there parents lives. If you have the chance.. it’s probably something you should question.